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A Thanksgiving reflection

Hooray! B has finally joined the rest of his classmates who’ve turned four. As his last week of nursery approaches, I’m looking forward to our Thanksgiving break together before he gets promoted to kindergarten. Here’s some reflections on his first full year in childcare.

Dear B,

You’ve shown social maturity and adaptability with the many changes this year. There were farewells to old playmates and adjustments to new friends and teachers at school. You didn’t like spending less time with mama as I not only returned to full time corporate work, but travelled away on business quite often – at one point for almost 3 weeks straight. Yet your teachers remarked on your “very positive self identify and sense of belonging”, 他会告诉老师:“妈妈不在新加坡”“我的爷爷来接我” as you figured things out and embraced the village of caregivers around you.

You’re growing in knowledge and imagination (and negotiation skills)! Being constantly surrounded by books has motivated you to learn how to read, first reciting from memory, then through sight words, and now as you blend and decipher more and more each day. “There are many little ways to enlarge your child’s world. Love of books is the best of all.”  We try to read together every night when I’m at home, borrow or buy new readers (like the Timmy and Tammy series below), and write down “new” words together.

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Flipping through our notebook with all the new or tough words

You are learning to persevere and not give up. You were frustrated that you couldn’t draw or write as well as some of your friends but I’m glad we encouraged you to keep on doodling and scribbling. Since you like mixed medium, illustrated stories and numbers, we incorporated math and sensory play, gave titles to your art and made collages of our holidays. Mama too has learned to be patient and not compare! Remember Leo, the late bloomer.

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Colouring isn’t my favourite, but completing a number puzzle is!

Speaking of perseverance, you completed your first sport events this year. Mama crazily signed us up for an 800m Cold Storage kids run (which I thought was only 100m – oops), and I am so proud that you finished it even if we held hands and walked part of the way. You also biked solo in the OCBC Cycle event and grew confident enough that you cycled with us around Maldives. You didn’t even realise that those training wheels never touched the ground! We’ll upgrade you soon to a 16″ big boy pedal bike once you’re tall enough 🙂

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You’re starting to apply yourself in things that interest you, like violin. Though some days I bribe you to practice with car stickers, you surprise me with your progress and willingness to continue each term. Your teachers even invited you to perform as one of the musicians this year, and you did wonderfully! I’m glad you’re learning that “what separates the talented individual from a successful one is a lot of hard work.” While we’ll still explore many things and may drop others as you grow up, I’ll always support you in your pursuits as long as I can and you want to 🙂

Perhaps mommy and daddy could also work on two areas this coming year while your fantastic four is “under construction.” One is to more intentionally live out our faith as individuals and as a family. B may not like sitting still to pray, but he loves the bible stories and has made more friends at church. How can we help you grow into a godly man?  How can we serve our church community together?

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Same, same, but different! B likes to compare between the kids bibles

The other area of course, is Chinese. Although we found a good programme at Sparkanauts, I still wish for more time with you since no one else speaks Chinese at home. Your teacher suggested that we use videos, games or apps – 在家中可以观看有教育意义的卡通短片或者儿歌 。或者通过 ⼀些华文的电脑游戏来学习华文。家人可以使用华语和他进行沟通,增强他的日常生活⼝ 语。老师可以在和他的沟通中纠正他的句型错误并完整他的句子 –  beyond continuing to speak in Chinese. Mama has been quite strict about screen time, but perhaps we could try this in the coming year? That way, maybe ama and 公公 could get immersed too 🙂

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Some of the things we’ve tried for Chinese, if only I had more time!

My darling B, you melt my heart when you say, “I love you more than all the numbers, mama” and you make us laugh with “Now I like daddy, but I really like mama … when I’m old and I like mama, I’ll really like daddy.” I thank God every day for you and how blessed we are as your parents.

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Special Giveaway: Complimentary OCBC Cycle Mighty Kids Rides (2-5 years old)

Does your kid love his or her wheels? Thanks to the good folks at OCBC, I’m thrilled to offer our readers a chance to join us at the 7th Annual OCBC Cycle this August 2015. This year, there will be three categories of races – adult, kids/family, and corporate. The kids rides are split by age groups: 2-5 years, 5-9 years, 10-12 years old. We have 5 complimentary places to offer for the Mighty Kids Ride 2-5 year old category (100m race). Come ride with B! 10294405_10152824407070879_4641835021139591367_n Some questions you might have:

1) Where and when is this event?  OCBC Cycle will be held at the Singapore Sports Hub for the first time in August 29-30 2015.  It should be an exciting weekend of cycling and cycling-related activities, with about 9000 cyclists joining with their friends and families (over two days) at this inaugural event.  Note: The kids and family rides will take place on August 29, 2015.

2) What are the participant benefits?  From March 2015 onwards, participants can look forward to a series of cycling-related activities, such as a photography seminar and sports injury management talks. Participants in the kids and family rides will be automatically included in a lucky draw and stand a chance to win either one of 20 pairs of one adult watch worth S$1,000 and one kids’ watch worth $70, or one of 30 kids’ watches worth S$70. All watches are courtesy of Cortina Watch.  There are also many other special offers along the way if you follow the OCBC Facebook Page.

3) Which bikes are allowed for kids?  2-5 year olds will be allowed to ride on a tricycle, balance bicycle or bicycle with training wheels.  No strollers, scooters or roller boards though 🙂 Screen Shot 2015-05-02 at 8.43.26 am B will most likely go on his balance bike:

Ready to ride?  Drop us a blog comment below on “Your favourite family biking spot in Singapore” and head on over to our OCBC Mighty Savers Kids Ride Rafflecopter giveaway – the more entries you submit, the higher your chances of winning!
Here are the five winners!  We will be in touch separately with your sign-up details and discount codes.
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